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10:05 PMThere's no thing such as love at first sight. I guaranteed it as a bunch of bull. Love can never be easy as a guy and a girl met each other, then fell in love to each other, then they lived happily ever after. Love needs progress. Love takes times. Just like instant noodles. It may tasted sooo good when it comes to your mouth, but in the end it would ruin your digestive system and made your defecation went hard as fuck. Anything instant will never be good, so are love. Love takes time for both of them understanding each other, knowing what each other likes and don't. It takes time to appreciate each other's choices, each other's opinions, each other's visions, , and it takes time to accept each other's bad.
I conclude that love at first sight means they love you accidentally when they see the bright side of you. They just got spelled by your charms, your goodness, that made them want you so bad, even if they didn't even know you yet.
We may trust them loving us at first while actually they're not. Why? Because they haven't tasted our darkest side yet. They may can't survive with our dark sides, not like our friends. That's why i suggest; choose your (best) friends to be involved in your heart. Because they're the one who stay, eventho they know your weakness. Don't rush with somebody new. Take it slow. Love needs progress. Love takes time. If in the middle they can't stand it, let them go. Because for me (finally lessons learned), love is loving somebody's bad.
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Strongly agreed with you. I found it hard to "love" someone when you dont know her before. I cant get into someone and just "hey i like you. Youre beautiful, wanna get some dinner with me?" Its just... i scared that she will get disappointed,or I will get disappointed. Love just scares me nowadays. If only I had known you since long time ago..
ReplyDeletethanks for the comment! sooo happy that anyone would spend their times to give feedbacks. well yeah, i used to think that love scares us too—just right when i happened to suffer my first heartbreak. but then i thought that it's not love that scares us. disappointment is. and don't worry about it dude, any girl would run away if you ask them to have a dinner right after you just met them. that's just weird lol 😂. like i said, love takes time. it needs process. but if you don't do something, then you'll never know. so take the small step and find out! after all, that's what 'pdkt' is all about, isn't it? ok i'm starting to sound like a love expert here... anyway, what if you had known me since long time ago then? 😋
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